LEARNING CURVES

IN LIFE WE LEARN HW TO HURT OUR FELLOW MAN BECAUSE HE HAS HURT US,WE FEEL JUSTIFIED IN OUR WRONG DOINGS BECAUSE AFTER ALL HE HURT ME FIRST.IM CURIOUS HW DO WE TEACH OUR KIDS TO BE DECENT HUMAN BEINGS WHEN WE OURSELVES AREN,T I LEARNED A VALUABLE LESSON IN HURTING A FREND TWICE OVER BECAUSE SHE HURT ME.THE LESSON WAS THAT I WAS HURT MORE BECAUSE SHE WAS WILLING TO STILL BE FRIENDS WITH ME STILL EVEN AFTER I HAD HURT HER SO BADLY. THE QUESTION IS AT THE END OF IT ALL WHO WAS THE BIGGER FOOL AND GUESS HOW SURPRISED I WAS TO GET THE ANSWER ME.